It is in Giving and Sharing that we truly Receive

This place on the web is dedicated to sharing the accumulated and evolving human enlightenment - of the knowledge of law of attraction - of discovering and using the individual 'gift' each of us is blessed with, of living life on purpose . . . .

I decided to write this blog because it seemed like the best way I could share with others the many wonderful things I have learned that have deepened and expanded my experience and enjoyment of life.

I am a student of the law of attraction and the more I study it the more I discover how vast and deep its impact is on our lives and everything around us

This blog is meant as a place to share learning. Little of this material is originally mine, but more so a synthesis of those useful ideas that I have learned in my personal study.

My sources are many. I will try to include a list of recommended resources that you may find interesting and helpful.

" It is in giving and sharing, that we truly receive "

* 1. Your Gift & Purpose of Life

Everyone one of us is born with an individual gift – a good singing voice, ability to write well, being an effective public speaker, a great poet, natural aptitude to be a great engineer or a doctor, a home maker - the list goes on.

While there are people who discover their gift early in life and dedicate their lives to developing and sharing the gift with others, most of us have to make an effort, going through trial and error to find it.

But no matter how we discover it – finding it and developing it - is the first building block for creating a successful, happy and fulfilling life.

The second building block is to learn the secret that there is a natural law that is applicable to all of us – regardless of our individual gifts and talents. That is the Law of Attraction. This law may be the greatest gift of our creator for us – that allows us to achieve any thing we want to achieve, regardless of our age, gender, race, religion or environment.

While our individual gifts tell us what we should be doing in our lives,
the law of attraction tells is how we should be doing it.

What we discover in life is not a matter of chance – we discover what we are good at because we were meant to discover it and use it. It is from these specific talents and gifts that we are able to define and determine our definite purpose - the reason why we are here in the world.

If you fail to determine your own purpose, everything else will feel wrong to you. It is like working with a broken compass – you may feel you are traveling to a destination but you’re actually wandering aimlessly. It is imperative you recognize what it is you’re good atwhat it is you really love to do. Your purpose in life is to do the thing that you love.

Never think - that if you do what you are good at - you will not make enough money. You can earn money at ANYTHING. Once you determine your purpose, you won’t even have to think hard on HOW to earn money – everything will fall into place. The key to your life is not that you settle for the “safe” route that will bring in the money. The key is to do what you really love. Fall in love with an idea. That’s your life! That’s your purpose.

When a person falls in love with an idea his conscious and subconscious are resonating in sync. What’s going on in the mind is what dictates the vibration and movement in body. So, you must first allow yourself to fall in love with an idea … what is it you really love to do?

When you fall in love with an idea, it guides you …you don’t have to struggle to guide yourself. Nor will you find yourself digging around for ambition or seeking to achieve your purpose. It’ll push you out of bed in the morning long before your alarm clock rings. What might have been drudgery for you just a day before is now grand opportunity and discovery. You’re loaded with ambition. When you understand and accept your purpose in life, it will make decision making a lot easier. A purpose helps you become persistent and resilient at tough times. It is Purpose that gives meaning to why you’re doing what you’re doing.

Becoming aware of your purpose helps you connect with the higher side of your life, and acts as a fountain of inspiration. Loneliness and separation disappears as you become a necessary part of something much larger.

You are here to do work that your creator chose for you. God’s work is creation. You have also been blessed with creative faculties – a gift. You can not represent your creator, unless you make use of your ‘gift’ – for your own benefit and for the benefit of others

When it comes to defining the purpose of your life, you should discuss it, write it, and rewrite it over and over again, until you feel good about what you have written, until you feel it is in harmony with your soul. It’s time to listen to that inner voice, to give serious attention to what comes naturally to you and makes you excited to move at the start of each day. It’s time to sit down and have a serious truth session with yourself. Nobody knows your gifts better than you. It doesn’t matter what your parents, guardians, teachers, bosses, and best friends have said in the past. In this session, don’t entertain ANY negatives about yourself, past or present, real or imagined.

Negative images may have been crowding your mind since your early life. We have all had failings in our lives. But what we must remember is that when we fail, it is not a fault issue – we simply were not in harmony with what we were trying to do.

You might have a failed relationship in your past that’s leaving you with the guilt that it was your fault. You play the videos back again and again rethinking what you actually said or how you acted. But you’re so stuck with what you should have done differently that you’re not seeing the bottom-line truth: The relationship was not in harmony, it wasn’t resonating.

Most of us are obsessed with conformity rather than creativity. You may get a great deal of advice from well-meaning people to stay with the status-quo and you may tend to agree because status quo is safer and more comfortable. But you are going in the wrong direction, when you are not on purpose. You are not listening to yourself, to what is within you.

You may spend a big part of your life thinking you are not very special.

You must recognize that very unique gift within you - the ability to paint and draw, or engineer a car - or create a useful software, or play the piano, or add and subtract of numbers, or be a great public speaker, or match a person’s hairstyle to their personality, or fashion chairs and tables, or create blueprint that becomes an architectural masterpiece … and then you begin to discover the absolute, awesome uniqueness that resides only within YOU.

When you’re not on purpose, odds are that you’re not going to achieve much. So, remember, when you believe you’ve found your purpose, do not allow yourself to be dissuaded by others’ opinions – don’t allow them to tell you in which direction to build.

Most of us live either in regret of the past or fear of the future – while what we have in our command is only the present moment – the only moment that is real, is now.

Remember, regardless of what has happened up to this moment, it is part of the past.
Forgive it.
Release it from your mind.
Abandon it.
Rejoice.

* 2. Life Changing Power of GRATITUDE

It is said that no condition of mind is more effective in getting you what you want, than being thankful for what you already have.

Being grateful and saying ‘thank you’ gets you closer to the giver of things, more than anything else. It creates the positive energy that brings you in harmony with powerful force of creativity – clearing your way to receiving more and more of blessings.

This has been the most common discovery among all the great minds in history: expressing gratitude for what you have gets you and more and more of blessings.

Start every morning with saying “ I am so grateful for what I have, that I am alive, that I am”

You must think about all the good things you have. You don’t have to compare yourself with those who have more or less than you. That comparison is not truly being grateful. You should be thankful for all the blessings that you have, period.

You are uniquely gifted and blessed by your Creator and what you have should be the source of contentment, peace and gratitude in your heart. That is true gratitude and your link with the source of blessings. Such acknowledgement of your gifts, will also give you a clear understanding and confidence about the purpose of your life.


Giving and sharing

Another expression of our gratitude is giving, sharing with others whatever we are blessed with

Once you start opening up to the idea of giving and sharing what you have, you place yourself in the ‘cycle of nature’. This cycle or circle, works in the way that the more you give, the more or better comes back to you.

The whole system of universe starts recognizing you as someone who does not ‘stop the cycle’ by holding on to what is given to you, but as someone who ‘facilitates the flow’ by giving and sharing what you have. Once you are recognized as such, the floodgates of blessings are opened for you.

This is the quickest route to getting cleared inside: to know and say that you are asking for blessings for yourself and also to share it with others.

This giving is not limited to money. But giving it is actually sharing whatever you have – your time, your talents, your abilities, money, whatever you are blessed with.

Now lets see some great excerpts on Getting clear, Gratitude, Forgiveness and how it all relates to law of attraction . . .


Joe Vitale – (Spiritual Marketing, The Attractor Factor – 1999, 2005)

One of the most powerful energies you can ever experience is gratitude. Feel gratefulness for anything and you shift the way you feel. Feel thankful for your life, your lungs, your home, this book; it doesn’t matter. Once you feel grateful, you are in an energy that can create miracles.


Wallace D. Wattles – (The Science of Getting Rich - 1910)

The whole process of mental adjustment and atonement can be summed up in one word, gratitude.

First, you believe that there is one Intelligent Substance, from which all things proceed; second, you believe that this Substance gives you everything you desire; and third, you relate yourself to it by a feeling of deep and profound gratitude

Many people who order their lives rightly in all other ways are kept in poverty by their lack of gratitude. Having received one gift from God, they cut the wires which connect them with Him by failing to make acknowledgment.

The nearer we live to the source of wealth, the more wealth we shall receive; and it is easy also to understand that the soul that is always grateful lives in closer touch with God than the one which never looks to Him in thankful acknowledgment.

The more gratefully we fix our minds on the Supreme when good things come to us, the more good things we will receive, and the more rapidly they will come; and the reason simply is that the mental attitude of gratitude draws the mind into closer touch with the source from which the blessings come.

The good things you already have come to you along the line of obedience to certain laws. Gratitude will lead your mind out along the ways by which things come; and it will keep you in close harmony with creative thought and prevent you from falling into competitive thought

The grateful outreaching of your mind in thankful praise to the Supreme is a liberation or expenditure of force; it cannot fail to reach that to which it addressed, and the reaction is an instantaneous movement towards you.

And if your gratitude is strong and constant, the reaction in Formless Substance will be strong and continuous; the movement of the things you want will be always toward you.

The grateful mind is constantly fixed upon the best; therefore it tends to become the best; it takes the form or character of the best, and will receive the best

It is necessary, then, to cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you; and to give thanks continuously. And because all things have contributed to your advancement, you should include all things in your gratitude.

Do not rage against corrupt politicians; if it were not for politicians we should fall into anarchy, and your opportunity would be greatly lessened. Remember that they are all helping to arrange the lines of transmission along which your riches will come to you, and be grateful to them all. This will bring you into harmonious relations with the good in everything, and the good in everything will move toward you.

The man who can sincerely thank God for the things which as yet he owns only in imagination, has real faith. He will get rich; he will cause the creation of whatsoever he wants

When you are in doubt, wait. Fall back on the contemplation of your vision, and increase your faith and purpose; and by all means, in times of doubt and indecision, cultivate gratitude.

A day or two spent in contemplating the vision of what you want, and in earnest thanksgiving that you are getting it, will bring your mind into such close relationship with the Supreme that you will make no mistake when you do act

There is a mind which knows all there is to know; and you can come into close unity with this mind by faith and the purpose to advance in life, if you have deep gratitude

As you go on in the Certain Way, opportunities will come to you in increasing number; and you will need to be very steady in your faith and purpose, and to keep in close touch with the All Mind by reverent gratitude.

Whenever you find yourself hurrying, call a halt; fix your attention on the mental image of the thing you want, and begin to give thanks that you are getting it. The exercise of GRATITUDE will never fail to strengthen your faith and renew your purpose.


Frances Larimer Warner – (Our Invisible Supply - 1907)

Yes, we receive as we give, so a thank offering is helpful to the giver, as he then taps universal supply, as substance itself is the reality of all wealth.

We limit by withholding the symbol (money), as symbol and reality are one. Man only limits, Spirit never. Hold this thought for supply: "Since I am one with the only Presence, I cannot be separate from that which I desire."

As we give freely in just that measure is it "meted out to us again." Gifts of money are not always necessary, but some proof of faith should be made in order to open the way for our own continuous supply. "To him who hath shall be given" corroborates my argument that to feel that we have an abundance from which to give, surely sets flowing our invisible supply.

I will tell you one good way to coach your faith in abundance. Begin right now to use freely the means at hand, even if it is with an "Lord, help thou mine unbelief" In this way you will switch the old current of fear-thought and invite the opposite state of consciousness, belief in abundance.

* 3. Your Purpose and the Vision

Vision is the strategy of how you are going to fulfill your purpose.
The vision states what we are doing ... the purpose states why.

Whereas your purpose in life determines what you are meant to do – your vision will define what your success will feel like. What will be your life like – when you are “successful”? Once you’ve found your purpose you can express it by creating and maintaining a vision.

Van Gough once said, “I dream my painting and then I paint my dream.”
He knew his purpose in life. His vision was the completion of paintings, each uniquely different from the other. How he put his vision to canvas, involved a series of short-term goals to paint different paintings.

Your vision must always be clear, larger and more magnificent than the conditions or circumstances which presently surrounded you. It is your vision, inspired by your purpose, that causes you to stretch. The larger and clearer the vision, the bigger and better the ideas will be that flow into your consciousness.

Sometimes people give up on their big dreams because they never seemed to get closer, no matter what they envisioned or tried. The error they’re making is that they’re looking for results and achievement before taking any action at all !

In many instances, they’re writing their end destination on a Goal Card or they’re writing it in a journal somewhere. This is all well and good, but if you’re not also plotting your course to get from where you are - to where you want to be, how will you actually reach there?

Figure out what you need to do and make those your goals. Don't leave it all on auto pilot. Be always personally involved and focused on the process.

Don’t get so carried away with just plotting the action steps that you don’t ever get out of your driveway! People get so caught up in planning and charting their future, that they never BEGIN it. This is fear in disguise. Your plan doesn’t have to be perfect. Get the foundational elements in place and get moving.

Also, don’t be so intent on driving to destination that you miss the scenery along the way. You’re on purpose - you’re on your way - enjoy the journey!! After all, that’s what you’re doing this for!

People will often complain that although they are keyed in on their purpose in life but, for some reason, nothing seems to be falling into place. They mistakenly think it’s the purpose that is off course. In most cases it’s the vision that’s not clear enough.

If the road signs are telling you, after you have driven for a while, that you are going in the wrong direction then it is time you change the direction. You do not keep driving in the wrong direction. As soon as you would come across the FIRST indication that you were traveling in the wrong direction, you’d brake the car to a halt and do a U turn right there on the highway.

In contrast, if you are going in the right direction, but are feeling some resistance, do not despair. Resistance is not bad, it is not negative. Remember that airplanes would never get off the ground without resistance.

The Safety Blanket Issue

It is possible that you have difficulty getting focused on your purpose in life, because your daily job which exhausts your time, is also covering most of your bills.

You have been programmed from infancy to believe it is better to be safe than sorry. However, in this context, it’s NOT better to be safe than sorry. You have to find a way.

Also, you can’t pursue your purpose if your basic needs of life are not met. When your needs are taken care of, you’re free to move; you’re free to take action. When you’re enjoying freedom, you’re free of restrictions and worry. You don’t lie awake at night planning your escape from your less-than- satisfactory life, because you’re already free.

It is essential then, that you should first decide what your true needs are. What do you need in order to survive – to pay rent, to buy food, to keep the lights on and the water running? What do you NEED – not WANT, in order to ensure freedom in your mind and in your reality. Understand the difference between what you need and what you want. You may want to buy the whole Walmart – but what you may need is a just a few things !

Come up with a figure. Then consider what can you cut? What can you honestly live without for a period of time? We’re talking only absolute essentials here so that you’re free from worry. Find a way to get that financial need met. Can you go to a part-time basis with your existing company? Can you switch to another position within your company that allows that part-time base? In short, can you find a new job that still gives you the freedom and flexibility to work a few hours, each and every day, on what your true purpose is?

Are you willing to give something - to get something? In order to have any good come into your life, you have to create a space for it first. That’s the law: Giving up something of a lower nature to bring in something of a higher nature.

Think of the people who are looking for a new relationship, but they still haven’t let go of the old one. Consider the people are out looking for a new position – but still have got the old position in their minds – with all of its negative emotional baggage intact.

You have to consider sacrificing what is not vital to your survival and second what is not required to achieve your purpose. You might give up something you enjoy as a pastime or hobby in order to devote more time to creating this dream of yours. You might be willing to endure a temporary cash crunch in order to get a brilliant idea up and running. You might be willing to give up one or two nights a week in order to receive the education, training or certification you need to get you one step closer to your goal.

But this - following your purpose - is easier to do, if your vision is clear of what is the way in which you would like to achieve your purpose.

* 4. The Power Of Intention & Visioneering

Humans are gifted with the ability to create by the power of ' intention' or thought. We can attract anything in our lives both good and bad. Whatever we think of consciously or unconsciously, will get attracted to us and will get manifested in our lives.

There is nothing right or wrong, positive or negative about it. This natural law works without value judgment. It works to manifest in reality, whatever the human mind focuses on.

There are times when we don’t even want something, we don’t even intend it – but if we fear it and think about it a lot – it starts manifesting in our lives. Why? Because that is what we have been thinking about, that is what we have been focusing on !

When we watch news or movies and read news papers / magazines – when we are bombarded by a certain kind of news, we start thinking about it without conscious effort. We should not be surprised then if these things start showing up in our personal lives. Whatever we focus on, will manifest.

So, what you have to do is to choose. Yes, you have to choose and select what you want rather than what you don’t want. Once you consciously focus on something – even if you are only imagining it – your subconscious mind picks it up as if it is real. And it is in the subconscious mind where the real power lies, to connect to the universe and attract to you, what you really want.

This process works in our lives in a peculiar way. You observe what you currently have and are currently receiving in your life. You call this your “reality.” You respond to what you observe with a feeling, positive or negative, which then gives off that vibration to the universe. The law of attraction comes into force - universe then responds to this vibration and brings you more of what you were vibrating. This keeps the cycle going over and over, until you choose to change it through the exertion of your will.

It is important to focus on what you want rather than what you don’t want. You must state it in the positive and filter out the words don’t, not and no.

Remember, your mind works in pictures and if you say I don’t want to be mad, you are creating the picture of what mad is and thus the vibration of being mad.

You must create the opposite of what you don’t want. Your job is to create a vibrational match for something which you say you want to have. That is, how would you be feeling if you already had those things—the perfect job, the perfect relationship, the amount of money that you want to have?

Your job is to identify what makes you feel good and do more of it, then learn not to tolerate your negative feelings.

What will help you get focused on what you desire? Affirmations are an important component in raising your vibrational level to what it is you want. Simply release your affirmation, your vibration, and your feelings to the universe to take care of your “request” or “order”.

Your brain is the most powerful electromagnetic processing tool ever created, and if you use it wisely to choose positive thoughts, everything you desire will start to move towards you and materialize in its physical shape. The more you focus and concentrate on it, the faster and more potent the frequency gets.

You have to abstain from any doubts. If you doubt in any way that you can have it, then you are not allowing it. You are pushing it away and you end up with contradictory messages to the universe. What happens is you get your emphasis off of what you want, and therefore, off of the lack of what you want - and you hold yourself in a place of allowing all good things to come to you.

It is only when the contradictory thoughts, talk, and images are removed that your desired results will manifest. The faster you remove your resistance, the faster your dreams can be realized.

While trying to learn law of attraction and how it works, you should be saying "I want to learn the Law so that I can hold myself in a place of Well-being" - and not " I'll learn how to deliberately create, so that I can get this stuff that I don't have, or so that I can fix this or that"

The law of attraction does not respond to the words you use or the thoughts you think. It simply responds to how you feel about what you say and how you feel about what you think.

Conscious and the power of unconscious

Our conscious mind is limited by our senses – sight, hearing, smell, tasting, feeling etc. But our unconscious mind is not limited – it is linked to the creative force of the universe and can attract anything to us, good or bad.

This unconscious mind does not differentiate between real and imagined things. It follows whatever the conscious mind is focused on. That creates great responsibility for the conscious mind – i.e. to choose what to think about. Because whatever we will focus on with our conscious mind – will be picked up by the unconscious, which is linked to the creative power of the universe. So, the first step is to clearly understand what we want and then to focus on it.

A clear and detailed description of intended result

If you really want to achieve something – you must create a clear and consistent picture in your mind of what you want. If you keep changing the picture, it will be like going to a restaurant and ordering something and then changing your order every minute. Your order may never arrive or may take too long to come.

The gurus recommend that we write down what we want – in detail. And add a lot of emotions and feeling to this picture. For instance, if you want a certain kind of house, write down in detail – what kind of a house it is, where it is located, what kind of facilities it has. Dream about it, live in it, enjoy the pleasure of it.

This is not day dreaming – this is using the power of your intention to start the creation process – knowing fully well that this works because it is in accordance with a universal law. It is acting on the knowledge that this process will manifest in your life, what you want.

When a seed is sown you can not see the plant coming out of ground immediately, but you have the confidence in laws of nature that the seed will grow as a plant and a tree, if you take care of required conditions. So you prepare the soil, sow the seed and water the ground and one day the plant manifests itself.

Similarly, you have to take care of your part to activate this natural law of attraction to work for you.

You have to start the process by creating a clear intention in your mind. You have to provide the details. You have to add the feelings and emotions of what will happen, what will you feel when you achieve what you want. As you go along doing your part, the law of attraction will come into play and your desire will manifest from either an expected source or the most unexpected source imaginable.

Internalize not intellectualize

From our childhood we are taught to learn the intellectual way. We go to schools and colleges and learn from books and teachers. There is no harm in this way of learning, except that we start believing it to be the only way to learn.

And when we wish to change a behavior, we think that understanding it intellectually will solve our problem. What we fail to realize is that conscious mind only controls intellectual learning – but it is the subconscious mind that controls our behavior. It is not enough to only understand, but it is more important to internalize that knowledge – make it part of our subconscious.

No matter how many principles of success we learn, no matter many how many books we read, no matter how many gurus we talk to, we will not be able to change our behavior unless we are able to internalize our new beliefs. What is needed is a change at the very root level of our mind.

If during your childhood you have developed a low self esteem for any reason and that has become part of your subconscious – then that low self image (I don’t deserve good things in life) will continue to control what you do – no matter what we desire at the conscious level.

In this situation, merely reading books on the subject can not help us. What will work is that we first create a healthy and realistic self image and then make it part of our subconscious – replacing our old beliefs with the new ones.

And what is the way to do that? How do you internalize? A lot of experts agree that auto suggestion and affirmations (repeatedly saying certain positive phrases to ourselves) is a very effective way of doing it.

This has been proven true over and over again : what is consistently repeated by the conscious mind becomes part of the subconscious and starts changing the behavior effectively and easily.

The best time to do this is considered before going to sleep at night – we what you hold in our conscious thought then, becomes part of the unconscious mind more easily while we go to sleep.

The 17 second technique

It has been measured that a thought reaches a combustion point at 17 seconds of pure undiluted focus. It draws another thought to it and it is exponentially more powerful.

At the end of another 17 seconds, 34 seconds total, the next thought combusts, and by Law of Attraction, evolves to a higher level of energy.

Again another 17 seconds to 51 seconds continues the process, and finally, if you can continue a pure thought for 68 seconds on any given subject, it will be on its way to manifestation.

The key word is pure, meaning positive focus, strong energy, no resistance; to not slip into thinking about lack of what you want.

You will notice that the average person rarely finishes a single sentence without contradicting their energy, as in "I want a new car . . . but it is too expensive."

Most of us haven't had much experience with ever feeling the combustion of thought that comes from 17+ seconds of pure thought

In talking about the leverage of 17+17+17+17=68 seconds of pure thought, the gurus say that if we can learn to offer pure thought energy for 68 seconds at a time, action becomes INCONSEQUENTIAL!

How to Get to 17 Seconds of Pure Thought

Some people find that the discipline of speaking or writing helps - to keep other thoughts from being too distracting.

If you are going to do it in writing, you may often put in the form of a letter to a friend from the vantage point of already having accomplished what it is that you want. Then you can describe the feelings and details of your new place of being, and really get into the sense of actually being there.

You can also play the "68 second game" out loud, with some friends. The person who facilitates gets to pick a subject, then everyone contributes to his or her 68 seconds. And you know that if you are in a place you don't want to be emotionally, you can call any member of your group and ask them to do 68 seconds with you on what you are wanting in that moment. It really helps to have some partners to do the process with you.

Start with Less Important Issues

Nothing is more important than your feeling good. It is not necessary to focus on feeling good about oneself, but focus on feeling good itself. It is not necessary to feel good about your body, or about your financial situation; find thoughts that make you feel good.

It is recommended that you spend the first week writing 68 seconds about things that you don't care much about, such as blue glass, butterflies, feathers. Because you will attract those things. This exercise will teach you two things: one that you can focus for 68 seconds; two, that the universe does respond to a pure vibration. When you have a level of confidence in the universe, then you can tackle your main issues.

You should every day, twice a day, write your 68 seconds about all areas in your life, relationship, abundance, house, job, etc.

You will find it very easy to do. For instance, on your house, appreciate how convenient it is. Appreciate the thermostat that keeps the house at the perfect temperature. Appreciate the sewage system and the plumbing in your bathroom. Appreciate the comfort of it. Know that this house will be temporary, that you will have many others closer to the dream house you want, but meanwhile appreciate it. You see, there was 68 seconds.

So, in the next 30 days, write as many 68 seconds as you can. And do it deliberately.

Think about it! 68 seconds isn't hard to find. Throughout your day, you have thousands of opportunities to do your 68 seconds. Even if your work schedule doubled, you could still find plenty of 68 seconds?

Who would want to bang things into place, when they know that they can spend 68 seconds and have the universe do it for them? Nobody, yet it is what the majority of you do. You would rather jump into action than do your 68 seconds. You would rather jump into action than align up your energy.

Go beyond merely thinking about what you would like, to do or be or create. Go ahead and experience it in detail with all that you are. In your mind's eye, with your emotions fully engaged, surround yourself with the richness of whatever you envision. Fill your awareness with the sights, the sounds, the feelings, and the texture of it all. Allow yourself to experience the pure joy of the best life you can imagine. Let that feeling penetrate to the very depth of your being. Make it real within you, and you'll begin to make it real in the world around you.

WHY you want something, defines the essence of the WHAT you want, and the Universe always delivers to you the vibrational essence of your desire. When you think about WHY you want something, you usually soften resistance; (this is key!) But when you think about WHEN it will come to you or HOW it will come to you or WHO will help it to come, you often add resistance…

This is a hard part for most of us humans: we want to predict details or dates or the source. Release all expectations of HOW you will get it. Only focus on WHY you want it, and the essence of WHAT you want. That's it.

Attracting financial abundance in your life

Do you want to attract more financial prosperity into your life? Then remember that abundance is a feeling or a vibration, not a dollar amount in your bank account. No "facts" about the economy or your profession can limit your income unless you believe them.

Most of us were taught that as long as you work hard, you will be rewarded. But the truth is that plenty of people who work extremely hard do not get financially rewarded. The missing link about financial reward is found in your vibration about money, about your life, and about your daily moments.

If you want to attract more success and abundance into any area of your life, you need to change your vibration first. Your vibration must be lined up with (or "match") your desires (money, a relationship, a stronger body) in order for emotional and physical results to follow and show up in your physical life.

What is your vibration? Your vibration represents your current emotion, the essence of how you are "humming", or the "level" of your mood and feeling about any topic.

Changing your feeling from despair to hopefulness or from resentment to peace would do wonders for improving your vibration. When your vibration is "higher" or lighter or more appreciative, you are naturally more tuned in to the desires you want in your life. And while anger, hurt, resentment or bitterness are all legitimate feelings, when experiencing these emotions repeatedly, you are vibrating in a place that will NOT attract what you want into your life.

Most people want to attract a significantly higher annual salary, but what they are actually focusing on is what they can't do NOW because of the limitations to their current income. They are inadvertently focused on their lack, scarcity, the problems in their life because they don't yet have enough money.

Others talk about their huge expenses or how the economy is falling apart - as reasons why they want to and need to attract more cash. This confuses the Universe with its mixed messages about what they want. They are in essence saying "I want more money" and at the same time, focusing on "I don't have enough. Law of Attraction will offer" you what you focus on.

It is important to ask some questions regarding emotions towards finances - to help you formulate your real goals.

Why do you want more money? Why is it important to you? What are you going to do with it? What feeling will it give you? How will your life be different when you have enough or more than enough money? How might you change?

When you can answer these questions honestly, you are closer to feeling the vibration of the positive feelings you are moving towards, rather than being focused on the lack of money. Your goals will also be clearer.

People don't simply want more money. They want it for specific reasons…maybe to feel powerful, to feel free, to have options, or to be able to make different choices.

Let's say you are looking for the freedom you will feel when you have "plenty of money". You need to focus on that thrilling feeling as if it has already happened, as if you are already there. Focus on the feeling you want and that you hope to feel when you have more money. What is it that you are really looking for? How glorious will it be when you get there?

The Law of Attraction is always working, but we fail to see our blocks that cause us to magnetize the "wrong" situations or destructive relationships into our life. When we are focused on what we are frustrated with instead of on our goals and how good we will feel when we get there, Law of Attraction will still work perfectly. The only problem is you have aimed it at the wrong target (or fed it the wrong information). The Law of Attraction is turned on 24 hours a day, but it's our job to direct it towards our goals.

When you clear your blocks, the Law of Attraction will bring you opportunities and experiences you have been wanting, without much effort. Just remember: Your Vibration Comes First. You won't make progress in your life unless your vibration is positive, focused and clear, and you are "lined up" or in synch with the vibration of your desires –whether you want more money, better relationships, perfect business opportunities, or a healthier body etc.

This isn't about denial of the negative. This is about choosing your focus on the positive. You must be excited and expectant about the prospect of meeting the right business partners, attracting the right clients, reaching your goal weight, rather than on which relationship you can't wait to leave, what situation you hope to rid yourself of, or what debts you are trying to pay off.

The Law of Attraction is fueled by the emotions generated by what you are focused on. It is actually quite a mechanical recipe. What you are FEELING is what you are vibrating or communicating to the Universe. Your words don't matter if your vibration is communicating something different. Our work is to change our vibration first, then what we want can flow into our lives.



Excerpts from some of the great minds ,who have written about the universal law of attraction and power of intention . . .

Wallace D. Wattles – (The Science of Getting Rich - 1910)

There is a thinking stuff from which all things are made, and which, in its original state, permeates, penetrates, and fills the interspaces of the universe. A thought, in this substance, produces the thing that is imaged by the thought.

Man can form things in his thought, and, by impressing his thought upon formless substance, can cause the thing he thinks about to be created

THOUGHT is the only power which can produce tangible riches from the Formless Substance. The stuff from which all things are made is a substance which thinks, and a thought of form in this substance produces the form

In creating, the Formless seems to move according to the lines of motion it has established; the thought of an oak tree does not cause the instant formation of a full-grown tree, but it does start in motion the forces which will produce the tree, along established lines of growth

We are Thinking Substance, and thinking substance always takes the form of that which it thinks about.

You must form a clear and definite mental picture of what you want; you cannot transmit an idea unless you have it yourself. You must have it before you can give it; and many people fail to impress the Thinking Substance because they have themselves only a vague and misty concept of the things they want to do, to have, or to become. It is not enough that you should have a general desire for wealth "to do good with"; everybody has that desire.

When you try to impress your wants upon Substance, remember that it must be done by a coherent statement; you must know what you want, and be definite. You can never get rich, or start the creative power into action, by sending out unformed longings and vague desires.

Spend as much of your leisure time as you can in contemplating your picture, but no one needs to take exercises to concentrate his mind on a thing which he really wants; it is the things you do not really care about which require effort to fix your attention upon them.

Behind your clear vision must be the purpose to realize it; to bring it out in tangible expression. And behind this purpose must be an invincible and unwavering FAITH that the thing is already yours; that it is "at hand" and you have only to take possession of it.

Live in the new house, mentally, until it takes form around you physically. In the mental realm, enter at once into full enjoyment of the things you want See the things you want as if they were actually around you all the time; see yourself as owning and using them. Make use of them in imagination just as you will use them when they are your tangible possessions. Dwell upon your mental picture until it is clear and distinct, and then take the Mental Attitude of Ownership toward everything in that picture. Take possession of it, in mind, in the full faith that it is actually yours. Hold to this mental ownership; do not waiver for an instant in the faith that it is real.

Your part is to intelligently formulate your desire for the things which make for a larger life, and to get these desires arranged into a coherent whole; and then to impress this Whole Desire upon the Formless Substance, which has the power and the will to bring you what you want.

You do not make this impression by repeating strings of words; you make it by holding the vision with unshakable PURPOSE to attain it, and with steadfast FAITH that you do attain it. The answer to prayer is not according to your faith while you are talking, but according to your faith while you are working.

The science of getting rich does not require you to apply power or force to any other person, in any way whatsoever. There is not the slightest necessity for doing so; indeed, any attempt to use your will upon others will only tend to defeat your purpose. Substance is friendly to you, and is more anxious to give you what you want than you are to get it. To get rich, you need only to use your will power upon yourself.

Use your mind to form a mental image of what you want, and to hold that vision with faith and purpose; and use your will to keep your mind working in the Right Way. The more steady and continuous your faith and purpose, the more rapidly you will get rich, because you will make only POSITIVE impressions upon Substance; and you will not neutralize or offset them by negative impressions.

The picture of your desires, held with faith and purpose, is taken up by the Formless, and permeates it to great distances, - throughout the universe, for all I know. As this impression spreads, all things are set moving toward its realization; every living thing, every inanimate thing, and the things yet uncreated, are stirred toward bringing into being that which you want. All force begins to be exerted in that direction; all things begin to move toward you. The minds of people, everywhere, are influenced toward doing the things necessary to the fulfilling of your desires; and they work for you, unconsciously

It should be the work of your leisure hours to use your imagination on the details of your vision, and to contemplate them until they are firmly fixed upon memory. If you wish speedy results, spend practically all your spare time in this practice

If you want to become rich, you must not make a study of poverty. You must not try to eradicate poverty in any of the conventional ways. Put poverty behind you, and put all that pertains to it behind you, and "make good." Get rich; that is the best way you can help the poor.

What tends to do away with poverty is not the getting of pictures of poverty into your mind, but getting pictures of wealth into the minds of the poor.

The poor do not need charity; they need inspiration. Charity only sends them a loaf of bread to keep them alive in their wretchedness, or gives them an entertainment to make them forget for an hour or two; but inspiration will cause them to rise out of their misery. If you want to help the poor, demonstrate to them that they can become rich; prove it by getting rich yourself.

Frances Larimer Warner – ( Our Invisible Supply - 1907)

We all draw to us, through the law of attraction, all the good and all the error that we experience.

Spirit is substance which forms itself according to your demands, and must have a pattern from which to work. A pan of dough is as willing to be formed into bread as biscuit. It makes as little difference to Spirit what we demand

It is purely scientific that "Out of the imaginations of the heart, cometh the issues of Life." This is a mighty occult secret known to the adepts for hundreds of years. They hold steadily the vivid mental picture of the object they desire to manifest, and with them it manifests at once, seemingly from empty space.

Begin right now to see vividly your desires for a better environment and more congenial work already fulfilled; as the urge of life which presses upon the consciousness as desire, is always urge, and as a consequence must be followed with fulfillment

If we plant a seed in the ground we know that the sun will shine and the rain will water, and we leave it to the Law to bring about results. We do not see the process in nature, do we? Well, the desire you image is the seed, your occasional closing of the eyes in imagery is the sun, and your constant, though not anxious, expectancy is the rain and cultivation necessary to bring absolutely sure results, because relying upon Law. Of course, the ideal is the first requisite toward attainment

Every possession I now have came as the result of my active faith, and not through the work of my hands in uncongenial work, or even through the work of my brain. I began just taking God at His word and seeing myself in possession

"How can I lack any good, since mind is causation and I can think as I please?" "The power to create one's own self, to manifest as one chooses and as one pleases is a tremendous right and privilege

I was without a home for years and since the Law knows no great or small I decided that it could give me a home as easily as it could give me an ice cream soda. I began seeing myself in my home, would image myself about the house and grounds, and in fact in possession of all that heart could desire, and in less than a year it actualized into my outer environment— all that I imaged and more.

When a child asks money of the father, he does not know where or how his father gets his wealth or how he is able to give him what he asks for and he does not question as to that, he just believes that his father is wise and abundantly able to give what he asks of him. We absolutely must become as a little child, trusting where we cannot see, and ask, or rather give thanks, for having already received; then act as though God meant what he said. "He who believeth not God, maketh him a liar"

Joe Vitale – (Spiritual Marketing, The Attractor Factor – 1999, 2005)

Because we are all connected on this "behind the scenes" energy level, we can put requests into the universe at large and, if we're not too attached to the outcome and we are open to receiving the outcome we request, we will receive it or something better. The people involved in manifesting your request will feel your energy on an energy level. (We're all connected, remember.) They will be nudged by their own spirit within to help you achieve your goals

. . . we seem to create our lives out of our perceptions. If we focus on lack, we get more lack. If we focus on riches, we get more riches. Our perception becomes a magnet that pulls us in the direction of where we want to go. In that regard, most of us are on auto-pilot. We simply haven’t realized that we can take the controls. Knowing what you want helps you aim your life in the direction you want to take it.

What you hold in your mind with energy and focus will tend to be created in your reality. It takes a little longer to experience results because we keep changing our minds. Imagine going to a restaurant and ordering chicken soup. But before it arrives you change your order to won ton soup. And before that arrives you change your order back to chicken soup. You’ll sit there and complain, saying “I can never get what I want!”, when in reality you are the reason your soup is late. Most of us do that every day. Our indecision makes manifesting what we want nearly impossible

Begin to write out how you want the situation or condition to be. Get into the joyful feel­ing associated with having or doing or being the thing you desire. Really immerse yourself in this good energy. Describe the situation the way you want it to be, and paint this won­derful picture so completely that you can feel it as you write it.

The more you can fall in love with this new image and these new feelings, the faster you will mani­fest them

Emotion has power. Emotion also has the power to create what you want. Find within yourself what it will feel like to have, be, or do the thing you want, and you will begin to manifest the thing you want. The energy in the emotion will work to pull you toward the thing you want while also pulling the thing you want toward you

Just imagine that you already have what you want and write out a scene that describes it. Describe in such detail that you can feel it. Pretend you are a movie director and write a script for what you want to experience. Really get into it as you write it. Feel it. Sense it. Experience it. Again, when you think it and feel it, it comes to be

Napoleon Hill – (Think and Grow Rich – 1937 )

Thought impulses are forms of energy. When you begin with the thought impulse, DESIRE, to accumulate money, you are drafting into your service the same "stuff" that Nature used in creating this earth, and every material form in the universe, including the body and brain in which the thought impulses function.

As far as science has been able to determine, the entire universe consists of but two elements—matter and energy. Through the combination of energy and matter, has been created everything perceptible to man, from the largest star which floats in the heavens, down to, and including man, himself.

You are now engaged in the task of trying to profit by Nature's method. You are (sincerely and earnestly, we hope), trying to adapt yourself to Nature's laws, by endeavoring to convert DESIRE into its physical or monetary equivalent. YOU CAN DO IT! IT HAS BEEN DONE BEFORE!

TRULY, "thoughts are things," and powerful things at that, when they are mixed with definiteness of purpose, persistence, and a BURNING DESIRE for their translation into riches, or other material objects

Before we can accumulate riches in great abundance, we must magnetize our minds with intense DESIRE for riches, that we must become "money conscious" until the DESIRE for money drives us to create definite plans for acquiring it.

Only those who become "money conscious" ever accumulate great riches. Money consciousness" means that the mind has become so thoroughly saturated with the DESIRE for money, that one can see one's self already in possession of it. If you do not see great riches in your imagination, you will never see them in your bank balance

We are what we are, because of the vibrations of thought which we pick up and register, through the stimuli of our daily environment. Resolve to throw off the influences of any unfortunate environment, and to build your own life to ORDER

Taking inventory of mental assets and liabilities, you will discover that your greatest weakness is lack of self confidence. This handicap can be surmounted, and timidity translated into courage, through the aid of the principle of autosuggestion. The application of this principle may be made through a simple arrangement of positive thought impulses stated in writing, memorized, and repeated, until they become a part of the working equipment of the subconscious faculty of your mind.

Here is a most significant fact—the subconscious mind takes any orders given it in a spirit of absolute FAITH, and acts upon those orders, although the orders often have to be presented over and over again, through repetition, before they are interpreted by the subconscious mind.

Following the preceding statement, consider the possibility of playing a perfectly legitimate "trick" on your subconscious mind, by making it believe, because you believe it, that you must have the amount of money you are visualizing, that this money is already awaiting your claim, that the subconscious mind MUST hand over to you practical plans for acquiring the money which is yours

Riches, when they come in huge quantities, are never the result of HARD work! Riches come, if they come at all, in response to definite demands, based upon the application of definite principles, and not by chance or luck.

Generally speaking, an idea is an impulse of thought that impels action, by an appeal to the imagination. All master salesmen know that ideas can be sold where merchandise cannot.

* 5. Internal Clarity

To achieve your goals it is very important that you feel your vision and goals are achievable.You have to ask yourself ‘ honestly, do I believe that I can achieve all this? Do I believe that I deserve all this success?

For, if there is an iota of a doubt in your mind that you can not or do not deserve to achieve success that you are seeking, then that doubt will hold you back.

Such self doubt can come from either:

  • a low self esteem – where because of negative feedback in your earlier life, you are led to believe that you are not someone special and can not achieve much in life. No matter what is the source of that feeling, if deep down inside you have such feelings or thoughts, you will have to get rid of these, otherwise no amount of success books and courses can help you achieve what you want to achieve. Your low self image will become a self-fulfilling prophecy – you will walk away from every success and sabotage your own efforts and opportunities. Your own mind will create incidents and environment to make you fail in every endeavor you take.

    Low self esteem can also come from a feeling of guilt from past events in your life. This feeling of guilt and your internal fear that you deserve punishment can become a hurdle in your way to success. It is generally the reason why some people who achieve stardom, lose it all eventually – as if they have gone into a self destruct mode. Deep down inside they are feeling – even when they are at the height of success – that they don’t deserve that success.


  • thinking that seeking success and riches is morally wrong where you have been led to believe by your childhood that seeking riches is immoral – that those who are rich and famous must have reached that position by wrong means. Most people who don’t achieve success in life blame others as morally corrupt. With this kind negative approach to success and riches – how can you hope to achieve the same?

How can you get rid of these hurdles in your way and achieve internal clarity?

The solution to the first problem – low self esteem – is to build a realistic self image. You should consider the fact that the abilities and talents you have are God given. What your creator gave you is a set of gifts. You are not boasting or showing off when you use your talents. You are in fact thanking your God for giving you the ‘gift’. And your ‘thank you God’ note is in form of using that talent for your own benefit and for the benefit of others. This thought will give you a most balanced self image – you are neither under-stating nor over-stating yourself. You are serving the purpose of your life.

FOGIVENESS – the greatest of freedoms
When we forgive others, we do them less good than we do ourselves. Holding a grudge and desire for revenge, holds us back from positive achievement.

If we feel resentful about someone who we think has harmed us – that feeling of resentment and desire to get even, becomes the biggest obstacle in our way to achieve positive results, we are otherwise capable of achieving.

Therefore, when we forgive others, we benefit ourselves more than we benefit others. We should forgive others in our own self interest.

If someone has harmed us in any way, we can get rid of all resentfulness and the desires to take revenge, by forgiving them. This opens up the way to positive achievement.

Sometimes we need to forgive ourselves as well.

What is holding us back is mostly a feeling of guilt from the past, of our wrong doings. That makes us feel unworthy and is a hindrance in the way of positive achievement. We must dissolve this by thinking that “destroying our life as a punishment, is not the solution to pay for our sins”. The better way would be, to do so much good that it becomes our payback for whatever wrong we may have done in the past.

Another aspect of forgiveness is forgiving those that stop you from progressing in the way of manifesting your desires. Sometimes you will meet skeptics who will say this is all hogwash, how can you just think and intend something and it would happen? This is day dreaming. Remember, what they are saying is their reality – it is true in their case – it is true for them because they have chosen to think like that. Let them be. Don’t get upset. Do not start arguing. Go your way peacefully – secure in your knowledge that everyone’s reality is what one chooses it to be.

If someone thinks goals can only be achieved the hard way – that person will find success the hard way and thru struggle. If someone thinks that there is an easier way to succeed, that person will find success the easier way.

If you find someone who you feel is charging too much for his or her service, don’t get upset and don’t get resentful. Take whatever word of wisdom or benefit you can take from them and then peacefully leave and go your way. You are not dependent for your success on any guru. You can find your way by using your God given ability to create what you want through the power of intention.

In short, do not hold a grudge against anyone – you are the creator of your own reality. Choose to desire, intend and seek the kind of people you want in your life - and you will find them. The others, let them be what they are, forgive them and go your way. That is a better use of your time and you will achieve what you want more quickly.

The cure and healing for the problem of guilt from the past event(s) can come from total and unconditional forgiveness.

The process of forgiveness does not involve loss, but willing release. When you forgive you feel the real power. Power is not heavy, but strong. You feel less victimized. Victimization can create the feeling of armor or a need to armor, which is heavy. As all of the old weight, plus your anger, which is always heavy is laid upon your alter you can feel the lightening of your heart, which then begins to effect your physical body.

The process is slower than a weight loss program, because most people have to get the hang of forgiveness, but as you get it, the weight comes off in a gentle and effective way that will stay gone because you are not attempting to find something you have lost.

If your mind and psyche are not so cluttered with old emotions you can find more peace within yourself. It is important to replace the old weighty thoughts with new lighter ones. Many people over-eat for emotional reasons, using food to distract themselves. As you practice forgiveness the requirement for emotional eating begins to lessen.

You must find companions who are interested in something besides seeking pleasure primarily from food making food the center of their attention. If you are attempting to eat less, then thinking of food all of the time—counting calories, measuring portions, avoiding certain foods—can be self-defeating.

Often, the intake of painful, disturbing thoughts can add physical weight through the excess fluid of unshed tears or a feeling of having to defend ourselves by putting on extra weight.

Give forgiveness a month. If you still feel that you must count calories then add forgiveness to the program. Not only does the weight come off easier, but also the body responds by firming and toning in a way that other weight reduction programs do not offer except through strict and often strenuous exercise

Better spend your personal energy

It is also important to understand that when you focus on something, you give it a piece of your personal energy. If you allow yourself to be distracted you will disperse your energy and it will be too thinly spread on different and scattered subjects. As a result what you really want will not get your undivided attention and you will not be effective in manifesting it quickly.

This is true for negative feelings for others – you are wasting too much of your available mental and personal energy on something you don’t want. If you can get out of that mental trap – you will free up a lot of energy to spend on getting what you really want.

Complaining about anything, justifying about anything or blaming someone - all these behaviors hold you in the place of refusing to receive the things you've been asking for.

Feeling guilty, feeling angry, it doesn't matter what you call it : it is a refusal.

Although you are asking – and Universe is yielding (as it must yield) but why aren't you letting it in?

If you think you have forgiven, but you keep going over old material in your mind you have not let go. You did a mental ritual, but you have not made the demonstration of Faith to really let God take over.

Bottom line is: Forgive others, forgive yourself and move on to achieving positive results in your life

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Excerpts from a great writer on the subject . . .

Joe Vitale – (Spiritual Marketing, The Attractor Factor – 1999, 2005)

If there was a situation in your life where you were hurt, abused, or anything unfinished, you are probably still carrying around that unfinished business. You are still plugged into that old event. That means a part of your energy is still back there, reliving and probably recreating the old event.

When you try to manifest something today, you won’t have all of your energy available to make it happen.

When you get clear of the old events, hurts, memories and beliefs, you will have more energy to create what you want now. And the more energy you have now, the more you will get

If you feel that you have cleaned your energy circuits and are free from the past and yet you aren’t making money or miracles or anything else, then you haven’t cleaned your energy circuits or gotten free from the past

How do you know if you are clear right now? Think of something that you want to have, do, or be. Why don’t you have it yet? If your answer is something negative, you aren’t clear. If you say anything except an honest “I know it’s on the way to me,” you probably aren’t clear inside with what you want

Another question to ask yourself is, “What does it mean that you don’t yet have what you want?” Your answer to that question will reveal your beliefs.

For example, if you say, “I have to do such and such first,” then you have a belief that you have to do something before you can have what you want. If you say, “My soul doesn’t want me to have this,” then you are stating your own beliefs about what you think your soul wants for you. If you say, “I don’t know how to get what I want,” then you are revealing a belief that says you have to know how to get what you want before you can have it.

Forgiveness is the best way I know for getting clear by yourself. And the best way to become forgiving is to feel gratitude.

Know that if you focus on what you like about people, you will feel grateful, and then you will begin to forgive, and then you will get clear. And when you get clear, you can have, do, or be whatever you want